I don't want to get into any discussion on the correct language of addressing those that have/are autism/autistic. I personally identify as autistic and I feel it is a core part of my being but if other people 'fellow sufferers' like the 'with language', good for them.
What I want to look at is this idea of autism and suffering.
There's the view that autistic people suffer, often stated by parents with autistic children and others who work...